my non New Years Resolutions

So i have found that i do not have time for any simple things, like updating people on my life! This is sad and i am hoping to change that very son, until there, here's the latest update!

Christmas was awesome. I got everything i needed and a little extra, but mt importantly i got to see some of my family. I greatly missed seeing my mom's side of the family, and i saw none of Kel's extended family, but i saw all my immediate family and the Schmitt side and i am grateful for all the time i got to spend with mine and kel's families. We are all doing well with most things, and working out some others. As sad as it was that my sister did not have her new addition this week (baby due date was moved to February, i know it's crazy) i was very excited for the last chance my family had to celebrate a Christmas before all major changes happen!

I also have had time to reflect on my life for the past year and determine any changes that need to be taken. I am not making New Years Resolutions instead i am evaluating the aspects of my life that need growth and development and working on those. i have a happy, crazy, exciting, and life changing year ahead of me and i want to make sure i take time to focus on myself and my happiness while all this is going on.

The first thing is my health. As everyone knows, i have the weirdest and most confusing health on earth. this year i will be doing everything i can to be as healthy as i can so that i may live a longer, more energetic, and more capable life.

The second thing is not just my spiritual life, but my spiritual life with my fiance as well. We have all out pre-wedding things going on soon, and because of this we are given a time to grow and develop spiritually as a couple.As i am about to embark on the Holy Sacrament of Matrimony i want to make sure i am and maintain spiritual preparedness throughout.  I am also taking the time to grow and develop spiritually as an individual. I would love to start spiritual direction but i have no clue what priest to talk to or how to get started, if anyone knows anything or has a suggestion, please call me. This will help me to live a more fulfilled life.

The third thing is to grow and develop socially. this one might seem weird to people, but hear me out. I am a very social person by nature, however i have let a lot of my friendships go for the past year as i have been to broke or to busy to maintain them. With the changes going on in my life currently and in the upcoming year, i need my Friends and support more than ever, therefore i am hoping for more coffee dates in the future and some much needed girl time.

Now i have been reflecting and analyzing my life over the past couple of months, and i am out of time. if i am going to make changes is has to be now before life changes itself for me. I challenge everyone to examine and analyze their lives for the new year, so that you can set your goals, and maybe we can make this journey together.